In Malaysia, their conservative Islamic Party is encouraging men, who are looking for their second or third wife, to choose single mothers instead of virgin girls. Virgin girls have no burden. If men marry more single mothers, men can help these single mothers take care of their children.
Wan Ubaidah, a cabinet minister in Malaysia, said this about men who leave their wives: "Some of these husbands just go missing in action suddenly, and leave the wives without any food or money. These kind of men should be whipped, they deserve it".
"This punishment is not in the state sharia law at the moment, but we can make it a law to make men more responsible; there is a lot of room for improvement in the legal system to protect the welfare of women," she added.
COMMENT:
I find this interesting for many reasons. One of these reasons is because Wan Ubaidah mentioned incorporating this type of idea as part of Sharia. In my book, The Tyranny Of God, I discussed the reasons why and how religions may have been used by ancient leaders. One of these reasons were to use religion as a way to encourage and/or coerce the masses to behave in a way that, in their judgement, is good of their society.
I wish there was a way to watch and study how memes/ideas like these is eventually embraced or rejected by human culture through its laws and religions, over decades or centuries. Here could be an example of how a meme like, 'It is good to marry single mothers', and many memes like it, can, and may, become embedded in religions.